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Debt-Free at 18: The Money Systems We Put in Place Years Before University

Debt-Free at 18: The Money Systems We Put in Place Years Before University

Ruth
ETFs, Kids and Money, KiwiSaver, Money Education, PocketSmith, Sharesies, Smart, Budgeting

Our daughter is leaving home, off to Otago University. I’m so looking forward to her finding her next steps, but I will miss her terribly. She is ready to go! And, I’m not going to lie, I am looking forward to a tidier house. As we adjust to a new phase of long-distance parenting, I’m pretty determined to make one last push to get her as financially ready as we can for the big, wide world. I’ve always put a lot of time into making sure she understands how money works, long before she leaves home. In many ways, it all comes down to this moment: can she leave home and be fully financially capable? Without a doubt, I’m pleased to say the answer is yes. So today I’m sharing exactly how we have managed to, I hope, successfully let her financially set sail from home.

How We (and Our Daughter) Plan to Pay for University Without a Student Loan

How We (and Our Daughter) Plan to Pay for University Without a Student Loan

Ruth
Budgeting, ETFs, InvestNow, Kids and Money, PocketSmith, Sharesies, Smart

Well, the moment has arrived. The tiny five-year-old who started Primary School back in 2012 has just turned 18 and completed her final day of Year 13 at High School. Just. Like. That! I was warned that time would pass quickly, and it has. She has a few exams to get through, then she is done with school for good and can enjoy a few well-deserved weeks of R&R. Once the weather heats up, she will launch into full-time summer work for a local cherry packhouse. Going to university is expensive. Most of the cost is in the accommodation. We have always explained to her that we will financially assist her through university, provided she also contributes. She has done that. It’s going to be a family effort to get her through her degree debt-free.

How Our Daughter Will Pay Cash for University

How Our Daughter Will Pay Cash for University

Ruth
Kids and Money, Money Education, PocketSmith, Saving, Investment

Our daughter will likely attend University or Polytech in 2026. She still has to complete Year 13 in 2025, but after that, she has some decisions to make as she attempts to answer the dreaded and most commonly asked question, “What do you want to do when you finish school?” Going into further study is not a foregone conclusion, but it is certainly an option. As we spend the next year trying to help her decide what comes next, we will also take the time to help her (and us) financially prepare. She has no firm plans as to what she might do, but money comes in handy, that much I know. We want her to pay to study using cash. I’ve met too many ex-students who regret their student loans. Given we all know this cost is coming, we can save for it. 

Your emails keep me busy, and I’ve picked a few to share with you.

Your emails keep me busy, and I’ve picked a few to share with you.

Ruth
ETFs, Index Funds, KiwiSaver, Kids and Money, Money Education, Smart, SmartShares, Simplicity, Sharesight, Sharesies

My inbox is cluttered with hundreds of different threads of conversations, which in turn means I struggled to find a true focus for a blog post this week. But I often think I’m receiving and sending out some real wisdom, and it's a shame it never reaches a broader audience. So, today, I’ve scrolled back through my inbox from the last week or two and pulled out a few threads from some emails I’ve received.

Investing Is Not Black and White

Investing Is Not Black and White

Ruth
ETFs, Index Funds, Investment, Money Education, Personal Finance, PocketSmith, Simplicity, Sharesies, Kids and Money, KiwiSaver

It’s standard for me to get at least one blunt email saying I’m wrong about a financial decision or purchase I’ve made on behalf of my whānau. Generally, the reasoning given will be based on one aspect, often a technical math issue, ignoring all the other points I mentioned. I used to panic that they might be right and that I might have this money stuff entirely and utterly wrong. But I no longer do. Instead, I take their comments with a grain of salt and consider that it’s probably them who are wrong. Although it takes time, often I’ll research their argument and find that they are.

You should pay off your student loan, and here’s why.

You should pay off your student loan, and here’s why.

Ruth
Debt, Kids and Money, Money Education, Term Deposits

I want to explain why you will often hear me encouraging people to avoid taking out student loans or pay them off as fast as possible if they have them. My suggestion is more controversial than I realised, and I’m often taken to task for my view, particularly by more mathematically minded people. Over almost eight years of talking with people from all walks of life about money, I have found that student loans keep coming up in conversations with former students. The simple reason is that what is considered a relatively innocuous decision to take on interest-free student debt has far wider-ranging implications than those borrowers ever realised at the outset. I kōrero with many people, and the word that keeps coming up regarding student loans is simple: REGRET. The reason they now have regret is that the debt had impacts on their life that they never foresaw.

Setting Kids Up for a Strong Financial Future

Setting Kids Up for a Strong Financial Future

Ruth
Kids and Money, Money Education

This week I wanted to write about how I teach my daughter about money. And I want to give the grown-ups a wake-up call because you have the biggest influence on younger people, but you might need to take your role more seriously. If some of us had to do an NCEA course in personal finances, we would get a ‘not achieved’ grade. This means it’s hardly surprising that we don’t have the knowledge about money to hand down to those younger people in our lives, meaning that some of them go on to make a right hash of their pūtea. 

Book Review: Barefoot Kids

Book Review: Barefoot Kids

Ruth
Reviews, Kids and Money, Money Education

This week, I’ve employed two exceptional 15-year-old women to help me review the new Scott Pape book Barefoot Kids, Your Epic Money Adventure. When I asked if they actually enjoyed reading the book or only did it because I paid them, Ivy said that she thought it would be a boring chore. But then she began to enjoy it because the more she read, the more inspired to start her own business she became. Nina loved reading it because she is interested in books and websites that teach kids about money. But, sure, she said, the $30 was a fab bonus too! In this book review, I bring together all our different thoughts, and you get to decide whether it is worth buying for the kids in your life.

KiwiSaver for kids? YES, please!

KiwiSaver for kids? YES, please!

Ruth
Kids and Money, KiwiSaver, Money Education

I believe it is essential that we don’t just teach our tamariki to ‘save’, but we teach them to become ‘investors’ as well. That’s where the money is to be made over time. Since taking part in the Sharesies Kids and Investing webinar, one conversation thread has stayed with me. It was about whether it is worth signing your tamariki up to KiwiSaver or not. I am firmly in the YES camp.

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